Point is, any kind of sex -- intercourse certainly included -- tends to get better as time goes by. Be sure to use extra latex-safe lubricant with the condom, and put a generous amount of lube on and around the entire vulva. Or maybe you're here reading this because it was something you've tried that hasn't seemed to 'work" in one way or another, or at all. When I ride my bike on trails in the morning now? You can buy an artificial lubricant to help reduce chafing. Back to top Written By: Because the vaginal opening is very close to the urinary opening, bacteria can easily get into that opening and create a urinary tract infection.
If one or both of you are uncertain as to where that is, take some time -- be that minutes or weeks -- to better explore the vulva, with fingers and your eyes, to be more familiar with what's what.
First Intercourse 101
A lot of young couples plan to have intercourse on a specific date, so if you're doing that, be sure you're both leaving room for one or both of you to find that on that date, you just might not be in the mood that day. Feel like you've already passed the course? He may, for instance, have trouble maintaining erection, and that's fine and good too -- if you still want to be sexually intimate, just move to another activity in which an erection isn't required. Take some time to think about what new responsibilities this aspect of your life entails, because there are a lot of them. When you begin vaginal entry, go slow. If you are experiencing this problem, try a different position. Some people have the idea that if they've started having intercourse, they can't go back to not having intercourse.